Wife wants sex with black men. I kept telling myself that i am above this. All night. Candy gives it away. Implications of sex before marriage are none ie. He was insulting to the girl, her parents, and her fiance, telling them this was the last straw with him. You should let go, life is short and especially the period of youth and shorter is period of marriage without kids, enjoy it to the fullest. I am sorry babe, but I have really tried to be good while you have been away, but I want to be hones It started out as withholding sex for the two years after his return from the navy and reinstating off his military leave.