Why do men not want sex. Yes even the notable Buzz Aldren. Men need to stop and ask, "Why exactly am I getting married? I talk to anyone or everyone with warmth and a warm smile. Yet this is exactly the same situation that women demand more recognition for!! They know that their husband knows what a financial disaster they are facing if they divorce. Are you going to stay together and be miserable just because of an artificial marriage vow to stay together "til death do you part"? The National Guard is a more organized version. Japan struck first at Pearl Harbor and we chased them down. Marriage is not for everyone.