What men want in a girlfriend. It is up to you. You get to follow your idols movements and their activity, update yourself about their lives and share your interest with other people who is the same fan just like you. We need time for our hobbies, time with our friends, and time to toil away on our projects to feel fulfilled. Is it more of a balance between the two extremes? Shes going on a month now. N vice versa. A meal? He work hard, it is true, but for me and the kids. Only God can.