Sex before one day of period. Many call it pseudo-cheating for a reason, you have to understand no one can ever forget their first time. Talk to her maturely tell her that you are hurt by the situation and it will take time for you to get over. A man may not take a vow to abstain from sex for an extended period of time, and may not take a journey for an extended period of time, because that would deprive his wife of sexual relations. At the end of the period of niddah, as soon as possible after nightfall after the seventh clean day, the woman must immerse herself in a kosher mikvah, a ritual pool. As for men trying to get your clothes off etc. It helps to build the couple's desire for one another, making intercourse in the remaining two weeks more special. I love him so much and he is what I think about being with now. It isn't Christopher Columbus and the conquistadors, though, that resemble the selflessness of the Rev. After reading this entire conversation, I really got tears in my eyes.