Questions to ask your partner about sex. If you make your question artificially hard to read, it is more likely to be passed over in favor of one that isn't. Are there feelings of jealousy from either end? Try to find an answer by searching the archives of the forum or mailing list you plan to post to. Log in. Has your boyfriend or girlfriend ever embarrassed you? For many of us it complicates things a lot. How often? Premarital Counseling: What kinds of punishment are appropriate or not appropriate? In particular, we throw away questions from people who appear to be losers in order to spend our question-answering time more efficiently, on winners. Have you ever been attracted to the same sex? I love it!