Pastor has sex wtih daughters friend. I would never remove my rings. And all her friends and family and her therapist are telling her how happy they are that she divorced me. Our children are sympathetic to me but do not always support my stand. Well, God bless you all. I too believe there is no other marriage for me, that if he is not back and can not make it with him, well, how many times can I try? Funny how circumstances change things! I dont want this marriage to end i just want her to love me again and see how god can turn this around for us. But God saved me from that dark place. I am reading a book by Merlin Carothers regarding praising God in every situation no matter how things may seem or look. This is all killing me. Father God please please soften the heart of these two men, you reached them both before and you can do it again. Yet the father welcomes us openly. I began to stand that day.