Husband emotional affair with coworker. By continuing to use this site you consent to our cookies. Step 4. That kind of thing will cause him a lot of emotional trouble later on. It means that your wife is genuinely dedicated to renewing your marriage. She tells me that she loves me and that she is happy but she comes to bed in the late hours in the mornings because she is sitting in the garage. Whatever you do from here, thanks for reading! It all strayed out when he was helping his son with his married girlfriend. Are you having an affair? If your wife has been willing and able to fulfill each of these steps, then the next two will be easy. But how do you totally sever the relationship?