How to deal with rude wife. My parents were toxic people. Be with someone who allows you to be YOU. July 23, at 2: Try not to take this personally. I feel as you. You need to show them the you that exists outside your illness. September 30, at 2: February 1, at 3: I thought there were several turns that either were heading up or down into a turn. How can anyone get anywhere with someone like this? Staying out of the line of fire.