Breath into partner during sex. He should never go all the way with deep thrusts until his woman begins to climax. Clitoral orgasms can be very intense, but may not be as "deep" as others. But this time sweep with your hands about 50 cm above your partner's body. When your lover nears orgasm, give his coronal ridge area near the tip a squeeze with your little finger on completing the up stroke. Slowly you lick the outer lips of her vagina softly while gazing into her eyes showing your desire. This stimulates many nerves, as well as the prostate. A man may find this great but unfortunately this is not the best way to please a woman. Tighten and relax the PC as rapidly as is comfortable. Women, just like men, want to feel desired, so to make her feel like orally pleasuring her is repulsive to you is certainly a "blow" to her ego. Thank you! This orgasm may begin at the g-spot and stay focused there throughout the building and final release of the orgasm, or may expand throughout the body.